Manage Your Mental Attitude
Ruminating over negative thoughts wreaks havoc on your self-confidence. Everyone has doubts about their skills, looks, clothes, and personality—you’re not alone. Some just handle it better than others.
One way to stop negative thoughts is to question the little voice in your head that keeps nagging you. Next time it bashes you for being a failure, ask yourself, “Is there concrete evidence of that?” Look for evidence that supports or denies these thoughts.
Even if there is evidence to support that you failed—or whatever negative trait that’s bothering you—dig deep inside you to find evidence to the contrary. I’m sure there are times when you’ve succeeded, you just forgot about them. Recall the good that you’ve done in the past.