Practical challenges

Your self-confidence will soar once you’ve got the foundational skills down pat. But don’t stop there; stretch yourself a little by taking on practical challenges that exercise your newfound self-confidence.

You can go through these tasks chronologically, or cherry-pick the ones that’ll have the biggest impact on your life.

Negotiate a raise
Ask your credit card provider to waive some fees (from NerdWallet)
Ask for a discount at your favorite cafe, just because
Ask your crush on a date
Negotiate your car insurance or other regular payment
Give a toast at the next wedding you attend
Make a new friend at an event near you
Negotiating a mortgage, car, or any big purchase (from Quoted)
Approach a group you don’t know in an event and talk to them
Learn a new skill you’ve always wanted to learn but were afraid to try (i.e. flairtending, scuba diving, trapeze flying, speaking French, painting)
Negotiate your rental lease

Reach out to someone you admire, like a book author, event speaker, or a potential mentor